The language of online dating hookups, love, relationships, and sex has changed a lot over the years There are literally hundreds of news terms used to describe sexual preferences and orientation. Do you know the latest terms to describe your preferences and the online dating match you’re seeking? Listed below you’ll find a list of sex and dating terms for personal ads and online dating. Revisit our list when you have questions about abbreviations or acronyms in online dating.
Online language relating to dating and sex is constantly changing. Here are some terms used to describe preferences such as race, ethnicity, physical shape, sexuality, and religion. The list below is your personal glossary of acronyms and abbreviations used in personal ads and online dating.
A: Asian
ABG: Asian baby girl
ACA: all calls answered
AF: ass fuc-
AFF: adult friend finder
AL: animal over
ASL: age state location
ATM: ass-to-mouth
AZN: Asian
B&D, B/D: bondage and discipline or bondage and domination
B: black or brother, babe, bae, boo
BACKSLIDE: return to a former partner
BAE: baby, before anyone else
BB: barebacking
BB: bodybuilder
BBBW: big black beautiful woman
BBC: big black cock
BBW: big beautiful woman
BDSM: bondage, discipline, dominance, submission and sado-masochism
BEAR: big and hairy gay man
BF: black female
BF: boyfriend
BFFWB: best friend forever with benefits
BFWB: best friends with benefits
BHM: big handsome man
Bi: bisexual
BiF: bisexual female
BiM: bisexual male
BiMF: bisexual married female
BiMM: bisexual married male
BLK: black
BM: black man
BMW: big Mexican woman
BREADCRUMBING: sending flirty messages tokeep a potential lover interested
C: Christian
C: couple
C2c: cam to cam
CAR: catch and release
CATFISH: someone who creates a false identity online
CD: cross-dresser
CILF: cartoon I’d like to fuc-
CIM: come in mouth
CMIYC: catch me if you can
COM: come on body
CORN: pornography
CORNUCOPIA: homophobia
COTD: catch of the day
CPL: couple
CU: see you
CUFF: tie down in a relationship
CUFFED: married or already in a relationship
CUSHIONING: maintaining alternative romantic relationships
D/D: drug and disease
D/s: dominance and submission
D: divorced
D2F: down to fuc-
DADDY: dominant male, male partner
DateSAF: date single Asian female or straight Asian female
DateSAM: date single Asian male or straight Asian male
DateSBF: date single Black female or straight Black female
DateSBM: date single Black male or straight Black male
DateSHF: date single Hispanic female or straight Hispanic female
DateSHM: date single Hispanic male or straight Hispanic male
DateSWF: date single White female or straight White female
DateSWM: date single White male or straight White male
DB: dead bedroom
DBF: divorced black female
DBM: divorced black male
DDF: drug and disease free
DF: drug free or disease free
DFK: deep French kissing
DL: down low
Dom: male dominant
Domme: female dominant
DTE: down to earth
DTF: down to fuc-
DTR: define the relationship
DWF: divorced white female
DWM: divorced white male
EAT OUT: perform oral sex on a woman
EDGE: Point just before orgasm
E-FIT: careful editing of social media posts so they serve as online dating profile
EGGPLANT: penis
ENTANGLEMENT: complicated romantic relationship
EOD: equal opportunity dater
EVWE; extremely very well endowed
F: female
F2F: face to face
F9: fine, get rid, promiscuous
FA: fat acceptance or fat admirer
FAQ: frequently asked questions
FBO: facebook official
FOMO: fear of missing out
FSF: female seeking female
FSM: female seeking male
FTA: fun travel adventure
FTM: female to male transsexual
FTTB: for the time being
FWB: friend with benefits
FYI: for your information
G: gay
GAF: gay asian female
GAM: gay asian male
GBF: gay black female
GBM: gay black male
GC: gay couple
GF: gay female
GF: girlfriend
GFE: girlfriend experience
GG: game and giving
GG: genetic girl
GHF: gay Hispanic female
GHM: gay Hispanic male
GHOST: end conversation without explanation
GM: gay male
GOSH: good sense of humor
GOWM: gout with me
GREEK: anal sex
GTSY: good to see you
GWC: gay white couple
GWF: gay white female
GWM: gay white male
H/O: hangout
H: Hispanic
HAC: hot Asian chick
HASIAN; hot Asian
HAUNTING: when ex-partner reappears in your life
Het: heterosexual
HNG: horny net geek
HWP: height weight proportional
I: indian
IPT: is partial to
IRL: in real life
IRLY: I really like you
ISO: in search of
ISOLTR: in search of long term relationship
J: jewish
JBY: just be yourself
JELLY: jealous
JELLY-ROLL: genetalia
K: kids
KITTY: vagina
KRAY BAE: crazy baby
L: latino or latina
L: lesbian
LAYBY: someone you are dating while waiting for better options
LBGTQ: lesbian gay bisexual transgender queer (or questioning)
LD: light drinker
LDA: long distance affair
LDH: long distance hug
LDR: long distance relationship
LDS: later day saints or mormon
LE DOLLAR BEAN: lesbian
LE DOLLAR SIGN BEAN: lesbian
LE$BEAN: lesbian
LFG: looking for group
LGBT: lesbian gay bisexual transgender
LOCKERING: using academic studiess an excuse for cooling a relationship
LS: life story, light smoker
LSA: limited strings attached
LTR: long term relationship
LV: love
M: male or married
M4M: man for man
M4MW: man for man and woman
M4T: male for transsexual
M4T: male for transvestite
M4W: man for woman
MBA: married but available
MBC: married black couple
MBiC: married bisexual couple
MBL: married but looking
MBM: married black male
MEET CUTE: a romantic first encounter
MHC: married Hispanic couple
MLTR: multiple long term relationships
MM: married man or marriage minded
MONKEY: someone who moves quickly from one relationship to the next
MOTOS: member of the opposite sex
MOTSS: member of the same sex
MTAF: more than a friend
MTF: male-to-female transsexual
MUNCH: a guy who performs oral sex on a woman
MW4M: man and woman for man
MW4MW: man and woman for man and woman
MW4W: man and woman for woman
MWC: married white couple
NA: native American
NBSB: no boyfriend since birth
ND: no drugs
NETFLIX AND CHILL: chill with someone in front or tv, usually an invitation to have sex
NGSB: no girlfriend since birth
NIP NOPS: nipples
NON-DATE DATE: a date arranged as a social get together rather than a romantic event
NRI: non-resident indian
NS: nonsmoking
NSA: no strings attached
OAT: on a thing
OBOE: penis
OM4YM: older male for younger male
ONS: one night stand
OSO: other significant other
OTH: on the hook or off the hook
OTTER: slim and hairy gay man
OWC: oral without condom
PEACOCKING: dressing up for social media photos
PEGGING: female to male/female anal sex with a strapon
PF: professional female
PLAYER: romantically or sexually promiscuous person
PM: professional male
PNP: party and play
POF: plenty of fish
POSSLQ: personof opposite sex sharing living quarters
PSE: porn star experience
PUSSY: vagina
Q: cool
R-BOMBED; when your love interest ignores your messages
RL: real life
RO: reverse oral
ROUGH TRADE: casual sex between men from different social classes
RTS: real time sex
S&M, SM: sadomasochism
S: singles
SAF: single Asian female or straight Asian female
SAM: single Asian male or straight Asian male
SBF: single black female or straight black female
SBiF: single bisexual female
SBiM: single bisexual male
SBM: single black male or straight black male
SCF: single Christian female
SCM: single Christian male
SECKS: sex
SEGGS: sex
SGL: single
SHF: single Hispanic male or straight Hispanic male
SI: similar interests
SLAY: get a lot of dates
SLOW-FDING: slowly winding down contact with someone you have been dating
SM: sado-masochism
SMP: sexual marketplace
SNAOTR: spiritual not atheist or traditionally religious
SO: significant other
SOLA: single or living alone
STD: sexually transmitted disease
STI: sexually transmitted infection.
STR: short term relationship
STR8: straight
SUB: submissive
SWANK: second wife and no kids, single woman and no kids
SWF: single white female or straight white female
SWM: single white male or straight white male
SWPF: single white professional female
SWPM: single white professional male
SWS: sex without strings
T4M: transvestite looking for male, transgendered looking for a man
TDH: tall dark handsome
TEXTLATIONSHIP: a relationship based only on digital contact
TG: transgendered
THIRST TRAP: picture posted to attract attention
THIRSTY: desperate for a relationship
TLC: tender loving care
TRADE: young,, sexually attractive gay male
TRIM: vagina
TS: transexual
TV: transvestite
TYVM: thank you very much
UNCUFFING: ditching a long term relationship
V CARD: virgin card
VAS: vasectomy
VBD: very bad date
VGL: very good looking
VITAMIN-D: penis
VWE: very well endowed
W/E: well endowed
W/S: water-sports (fetish involving urine or enemas)
W: white/caucasion
W: widowed or white
W4M: woman for man
W4MW: woman for man and woman
W4W: woman for woman
WAA: will answer all
WATERMELON SUGAR: oral sex
WLTM: would like to meet
WTR: willing to relocate
WUW: what are you wearing or who are you with
X-FACTOR: a very special personal quality
XLD: extremely light drinker
Y/O: year-old
Y: why, you or yours
YM4OM: younger male for older male
YODO: you only dump once
ZOMBIE: a ghost who reappears in your life (online or real)
Online dating abbreviations and personal ad acronyms have become quite popular and very rightly so because it’s possible to convey so much without having to write too much. Do you know of some other Digital Online Dating Abbreviations, Acronyms, Lingo, Slang and Cyber Definitions? If so, let us know.
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